Apparently today is National Puppy Day! Well guess what? We have a puppy. A huge, psycho, exhausting, almost 70lb puppy. Truth is, a couple days ago Wild Man and I were nearly 100% set on selling this puppy. Seriously. Several months ago we thought the perfect time to get a puppy (one that was going to grow to be quite large) was when I was several months pregnant and we had a toddler. What were we thinking? I don’t know. Lets not get into it. You’ll often hear me joke…or not joke…about how getting a dog was likely my largest mistake. There are just days where I want to open the door and say, “see ya later!” and watch her run down the street. I have days where I really, really struggle with her. Have you seen Marley and Me? I think about that movie on a daily basis. Penny Girl isn’t as bad as Marley, but…she’s our own personal Marley. Sometimes I wish I could track down a time machine, go back to June and never get that cute black puppy that loved H.
But the fact is, there is no time machine and we have her. She is our doggie and even though sometimes I don’t love admitting it – she’s family.
This post probably sounds like I hate her. You guys, I don’t. I really don’t. She’s an energetic puppy that requires lots of attention and energy-releasing outlets. Its just hard to give her all the attention she so badly wants when I also have a two year old and four month old. But we manage.
I’m glad we do. All the puppy-bashing aside…
Our Penny is a good, good dog. She is a black lab. You always hear how labs are amazing family dogs and thats ultimately why we settled on a lab. We wanted an amazing family dog. She is just that. H is rough with her. He snuggles her, he throws toys at her, he hooks her to her leash and walks her around the house, he shares her bed, he crawls in her kennel with her, he plays in her food and water while she eats. He pulls on her limbs and holds her tail. He crowds her personal space, holds her face and bosses her around. But she never seems to mind. She loves him and follows him around all day long. They play together all the time and she makes H laugh so hard. They are the best of frenemies. I can’t wait to see how E acts with her and how she acts with him as he begins to get mobile in a few months.
Life would be easier without Penny. We could wear light colored clothing without spotting black fur all over it. We wouldn’t have a huge dog bed in our living room. We wouldn’t have to teach her how to walk on a leash – she thinks she’s a sled dog, I swear. We would be more relaxed and have less worries. We wouldn’t have had to throw away several ruined toys and a few ruined shoes.. I’ll be honest, some days a dog free life sounds amazing.
When Wild Man and I made a list of pros and cons about having Penny – there were more cons than pros. But the pros were more…powerful, I guess. We were so, so close to putting her up for sale. But we didn’t. For some reason we just couldn’t. Dogs have a way of sneaking into your heart. Its funny. Its frustrating. But this is our honest truth.
She is ours. We love her. She’s sweet. She’s loyal. She’s happy and she’s our huge ball of energy. I just can’t wait for the day she’s a much calmer, older lab.
That happens, right??