Avengers Assemble for a Birthday Party!

We had another successful, fun birthday party! Yesterday H turned three and we had such a nice day. During the day we got breakfast at Kneaders, ran a few errands and made a special stop at Costco – the birthday boys request!

His birthday party was held in our house with family and it was an Avengers theme! It was a great party with lots of chatting, kids playing, getting super excited about presents, yummy food and delicious cake and ice cream. A day perfect for our big three year old!

I’m so grateful for how loved my kids are. Seeing people gather together for their birthday is really special. H is very lucky to be surrounded by such incredible, loving family.

Happy Birthday buddy!!

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Happy Birthday H!

I want to start this post by saying this:

THREE? WHAT THE HECK? HOW DO I HAVE A THREE YEAR OLD???

Ok. Thanks for letting me get that off my chest. Now on to the post.

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BUDDY!

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H is three today. Three years ago today this little ball of love, energy and sweetness made me a mother. I’m forever grateful for him and his sweet spirit. H is kind. He is young, but he genuinely cares for others and I feel like he can sense how other people are feeling. He is energetic and is always moving (even in his sleep)! He has crazy hair that never stays in place and handsome blue eyes. He is brave, but cautious. He is a do-gooder, but is slowly trying out the more rebellious side and isn’t quite sure how he feels about it. He’s a good eater, a great sleeper and is an Avenger most hours of the day (his favorites currently are Hulk and Spider-Man). H is happy and easy. He is learning more words and sounds every day and is so stinkin’ smart! He is patient, a great, caring big brother, friendly, shy but social all at the same time and loves to be where others are. He is a rule follower (usually) and loves to talk about animals, Disney, letters, activities and holidays. He is an absolute joy. He is happiness and positivity. Happy Birthday, dude! I love you to infinity and beyond!

Who Could Forget Minnie?

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Yesterday was Mickey’s 90th Birthday, but know who else had a birthday? His gal, Minnie, of course! I’m saddened that she so often gets overlooked. But hey, Minnie? I didn’t overlook you. I never will. 90 looks good on Minnie. She has aged gracefully, hasn’t she? I love Minnie. She is so stylish. She’s true to herself. She’s sweet. She stands up for herself. She gets the job done. She is a romantic. She is happy. My favorite thing about her is her talent at making everyone feel good about themselves. More people need to be like that. She is oh so fabulous and I hope her birthday was just that!

Happy Birthday, Minnie Mouse!

Happy Birthday Mickey Mouse!

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Happy 90th Birthday, Mickey Mouse!!!

This is hands down my favorite picture ever taken of Mickey Mouse. H was so excited and a little bit nervous to meet Mickey, but he ran right up to him and gave him a big hug. The two of them sat together in this hug for several minutes and it was so special. At one point, Mickey even tried to shoo us away, seeming to tell us that he’d just hang out with H the rest of the day.

This picture captures Mickey perfectly, to me. He is happy. He is accepting. He is loving. He is friendly. He is kind. He is there and makes you feel comfy and content. Call me silly, but Mickey Mouse is home. I am so grateful for this happy guy who I’ve known since birth. He’s been there with me in my life every step of the way and I am very pleased to know he’ll be there for all of my future steps as well. There is no one else like Mickey Mouse and there never will be.

Happy Birthday, pal. You’ve aged tremendously. You deserve all the magic, just like you’ve given the world.

Self Respect Journey

You are kind. You are smart. You are a friend. You are worth it.

I tell my kids this at least once every day. I don’t miss a day saying this because I want my children to remember this. They are young and likely aren’t comprehending what I’m saying yet, but I believe that the more they hear it, the more it will become a part of them. I want them to always love and respect themselves. I want them to believe in themselves. I want them to have confidence in themselves and in turn, I want them to make other people feel good about themselves. I want them to have the ability and the knowledge that they can change their little corner of the world by being a good person. I know there will be days when confidence and self-respect isn’t the easiest thing for them, but I hope they have the tools to combat those negative feelings and I hope they know they can turn to their parents and siblings for a boost in the way they are feeling and the way they are viewing themselves.

As I was thinking about all these things I want for my kids, the thought popped into my head that kids learn by example and they copy what they see. I need to practice what I’m preaching to my babies. I need to be kind. I need to believe I am smart. I need to be a friend. I need to believe I am worth it. This kind of sent me spiraling into this idea that I need to start on a self-respect, self-love journey that my mind, body and soul desperately, desperately are in need of.

And I am so excited.

I’ve been doing some planning and have set up some goals for myself. I’m going to finish the year out strong so in 2019 I can begin the year feeling confident, refreshed, capable and have the self-love and respect for myself that I deserve, want and need. Its also going to focus on serving others and being kind to others, which I feel like is an awesome way to kick off the holiday season!

If this sounds like something you’d like to do with me, join me! I’ll post my ‘schedule’ below – you can switch it up to better cater to you, but I think this would be a fun little journey to go on together during the remainder of the year!

The Weekly Goals

Week 1 Nov. 18-24: Focusing on body love – verbally telling myself things about my body I am grateful for. Doing yoga twice a day, focusing on love and appreciation for my body. I am perfect the way I am right now – I am beautiful the way I am right now. 

Week 2 Nov. 25-Dec. 1: Every day write down 5 good things about my character (no repeats)! Read the list throughout the day and believe those words. At least 10 minutes of quiet  meditation a day (whether that be yoga, laying in bed, sitting in the spare bedroom in the basement, in the bathtub, etc). 

Week 3 Dec. 2-8: Be extra friendly and give service. Every day do something/say something kind to someone else (outside of immediate family) – do this however you think would work best for you and others (in person, on social media, a letter, treats delivered, etc). Be mindful of how many times I say sorry and stop apologizing for my actions that don’t need an apology. For example, sometimes before I start talking or make a comment on something, I’ll start with, ‘sorry,’ or if I feel like I’m in someones way I’ll apologize. I’ll apologize for the way I look, sound, act, etc. Don’t feel embarrassed to have an opinion or to want to speak up or say something. Not all of this needs an apology! I can exist without having to feel like I’m bothering people! 

Week 4 Dec. 9-15: Learn something new each day. Whatever you want to learn about, do it. Want to know more about history? Read about it! Want to learn about constellations? Study them! Want to learn how to paint your nails better? Watch some tutorials. Want to learn how to clean the tile on your kitchen floor? Learn that! Just expand your knowledge every day with something new. Then tell someone what you’ve learned! Don’t feel embarrassed – be proud!

Week 5 Dec. 16-22: Every day write down 50 things you’re grateful for. Yep, 50. They can repeat, just really focus on what you’re thankful for that day. Express your gratitude to the people around you, to yourself and even to objects (haha – you don’t have to, but I’m going to!!) Donate! Find things you can donate to the people around you in need – that can be to people effected by the fires in CA, people who don’t have enough money to have Christmas gifts, people who can’t afford a yummy Christmas meal, etc. Donate and help peoples burdens feel lighter. 

Week 6 Dec. 23-31: Learn more about the Savior. Study the birth of Christ in the scriptures as well as His life. Every day focus on an attribute that Christ has that you want to apply to your life. Strive to be more like Him. Fight the negative thoughts that come to your mind – whether they be about yourself, others, the current situation, etc – and actively replace them with happy thoughts. 

I am so excited to do this. I really am! I have high hopes for this challenge and I’m hoping it really resets my mind. I hope it makes me happier, more positive, more confident and respectful of myself and of others. I believe that if I really do this I will come out a much kinder, happier and content person – and I don’t know about you but that sounds like a dream come true to me!

Favorite Fall/Winter Lip Colors

I’ve seen a few other blogs talk about their current favorite lip colors and I love that, so I’m jumping on the bandwagon with my current favorite lip colors that I’m wearing a lot in the Fall and Winter months. I was able to narrow it down to eight colors and all but one are drugstore (i was pretty excited about that).

You’ll have to forgive that there are no lip swatches. I’m going through a bit of a skin-journey, as I’m calling it haha and my face is just in no place to be photographed that closely.

All these colors, except #6 are very pigmented (6 is a little more sheer) and are long lasting and don’t smudge or transfer. I am picky with lipstick and flat out refuse to wear color on my lips if its going to come off when I kiss my boys. I’m so excited to be sharing these because not only are they high quality and easy to work with, they have awesome price tags! They also all come with doe foot applicators (again, except #6) because I much more prefer applying lip color with an applicator than with the actual stick of lipstick – its just easier to me!!

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1. Girlactic Beauty Matte Lip Paint in Posh

2. Wet n Wild Liquid Catsuit in Berry Recognize 

3. Wet n Wild Liquid Catsuit in Rebel Rose

4. Maybelline Super Stay Matte Ink in Lover

5. Wet n Wild Liquid Catsuit in Nudie Patootie 

6. Revlon Color Stay in Supermodel 

7. Stila Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick in Perla

8. Wet n Wild Liquid Catsuit in Missy and Fierce 

If you try any of these, let me know how you like them! If you have any other awesome suggestions for me, let me know! I’m all ears!

Sleep Saga part 3

I’ve had a surprising amount of people asking me to follow up on how sleep training with E has been going, so rather than a bunch of individual answers I’ll try to answer the couple questions I’ve been asked here.

Does E still sleep through the night? He is!! Its been a few weeks now so I feel pretty confident in saying he’s a good sleeper now. I finally have two kids that sleep all night! Every few days (maybe 1-2x a week) E will wake up in the middle of the night, but its never for long. Sometimes I don’t even get up to go into his room because he puts himself back to sleep so quickly. If he does cry for a while I’ll go in his room and either lay him back down and pat his back for a little bit, or… (see next question)

Do you still breastfeed at night? Sometimes I nurse. It depends on how long he’s cried in the middle of the night and how much pain I’m in (you nursing mamas get me). I probably only nurse in the night like once a week. But I’m seeing that night feeding being completely done with here very, very soon.

Have you changed anything? Nope! Our routine is the same as it was when we started, except sometimes we skip the nighttime bath.

Is he dependent on the sound machine now? I don’t think he is. A few nights ago I forgot to turn it on and he fell asleep and stayed asleep just fine. However, I do think its comforting and soothing to him so I don’t plan on stopping use of it any time soon. I love it.

Do you use any kind of baby monitor? We don’t use a video monitor or one of the monitors that listens for him, but we do use an Owlet which I am 1000% in love with. You know I’m a chronic worrier – this eases so much worry and allows me to sleep better in my own bed, knowing his breathing and heart rate are being carefully monitored.

How are you sleeping now? Pretty good! It took me about two weeks to get used to all this new, wonderful sleep, but now I am sleeping really well and let me tell you, a full night of sleep is heaven! I had forgot how refreshing and beautiful good sleep is!! I’ve also been having the craziest, weird dreams since getting so much sleep which keeps me very entertained.

If you want to read part 1 and 2 of this saga, click here and here.