You guys. We went to the farm a few days ago and can I just tell you real quick how sweet my little H is? I mean, I already knew this, but he just proved that to me even more here. I’m going to tell you the story real quick because I have to tell the world just how adorable he is.
We saw a big cow. It was exciting because my boys love animals. There was a way to walk around back of the cage the cow was in, so to get closer to the cow, we walked that way. When we came around the corner, much to our excitement, we saw that behind the big mama cow, WAS A TINY BABY COW! It was just laying there by the gate being all sweet and cute. H, without hesitation, walked quietly up to it, stuck his hand in and started softly scratching the top of this baby cows head. The cow started closing its eyes, very relaxed and happy. Mama cow watched as H took care of her baby for a minute. Then, because monkey-see-monkey-do, sweet little E also joined in on scratching the baby cow. They were very quiet and soft and the moment just felt so special and pure.
I love how soft H is. He reminds me daily the value in being kind, sweet and peaceful.
Three is a funny age. You always hear about ‘terrible twos’ but I dare say that whoever coined that phrase hadn’t parented a three year old, yet. H is hilariously unpredictable. Most of the time he is our happy, enthusiastic, curious, adventurous, rambunctious little boy. He enjoys doing good, he follows rules and he is kind.
But every once in a awhile lately he turns.
He goes from that sweet boy explained above, to a little Hulk. (fitting thats his favorite Avenger right now) He explodes with rage. He screams and starts kicking and punching. He gets mean and mad and there is no calming him down.
I’m truly at a loss right now to know how to control these outbursts, while still allowing him to be himself and let him know its ok to feel things and express how he feels. You know? But at the same time, its not ok for him to kick and punch me all the time, right? Oh, the joys of motherhood. As frustrating as it can be I honestly wouldn’t trade it for the world.
He is a great boy who I feel very lucky to be able to witness grow up and learn more about each day. This is fun. It really is.
You come from a family of Disney obsessed people. Your great grandpa started this journey, passed it to Grammy, she passed it to her kids (one of those is me) and now I’m doing my part to make sure you guys all have a special place in your heart for Disney and all its magic and wonder. I don’t know how the Disney-love will translate in your own lives as you grow up. I don’t know if you’ll find yourself saving your money to take another trip to the park or if you’ll be to every Disney movie on opening day, if you’ll have Disney decor throughout your home or if you’ll be more of a quiet and reserved fan. I’m aware of the possibility that you may not all be as Disney-crazed as some of the rest of this family, but as I said before, I just hope there is always a special spot inside of you that respects Disney and is able to identify the magic it brings into our lives.
Because Disney magic is raising you. You’re being built by Disney Magic. When I think of all the ways I want you to grow up and all the ways I want to be a good mom to you all, I find myself thinking of things I’ve learned from Disney. As silly as it sounds, its 1000% true.
Disney can teach you to dream. Disney can give you hope. Disney can remind you that there is good in the world and that most people are good. Disney can help you find joy. It can help you cope when you’re sad. It can teach you lifelong lessons and it can implant song lyrics into your mind that you’ll never forget. It can be a source of happiness. It can be a safe place you run to, to get away from reality. Disney can be a refuge. It can help you feel carefree when you are feeling weighted down. It can create magic in a regular day and a regular moment. Disney can help you embrace who you are and the unique, special individual you’re meant to be. Disney can help you change your point of view and look on the bright side. You’ll find things and characters you relate to. You’ll have moments in Disney Parks you reflect on for years and years.
Disney is a part of your childhood, I pray you always think of that with a smile on your face and are thankful for your Disney roots.
Yesterday was H’s first day of school!! He has started at a preschool that focuses on speech delays and already I can tell that this is going to be amazing for him! I’m so excited for him and for this step in his speech journey.
Love you buddy boy. You are kind. You are smart. You are a friend. You are worth it.
We had another successful, fun birthday party! Yesterday H turned three and we had such a nice day. During the day we got breakfast at Kneaders, ran a few errands and made a special stop at Costco – the birthday boys request!
His birthday party was held in our house with family and it was an Avengers theme! It was a great party with lots of chatting, kids playing, getting super excited about presents, yummy food and delicious cake and ice cream. A day perfect for our big three year old!
I’m so grateful for how loved my kids are. Seeing people gather together for their birthday is really special. H is very lucky to be surrounded by such incredible, loving family.
Happy Birthday buddy!!
I want to start this post by saying this:
THREE? WHAT THE HECK? HOW DO I HAVE A THREE YEAR OLD???
Ok. Thanks for letting me get that off my chest. Now on to the post.
HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BUDDY!
H is three today. Three years ago today this little ball of love, energy and sweetness made me a mother. I’m forever grateful for him and his sweet spirit. H is kind. He is young, but he genuinely cares for others and I feel like he can sense how other people are feeling. He is energetic and is always moving (even in his sleep)! He has crazy hair that never stays in place and handsome blue eyes. He is brave, but cautious. He is a do-gooder, but is slowly trying out the more rebellious side and isn’t quite sure how he feels about it. He’s a good eater, a great sleeper and is an Avenger most hours of the day (his favorites currently are Hulk and Spider-Man). H is happy and easy. He is learning more words and sounds every day and is so stinkin’ smart! He is patient, a great, caring big brother, friendly, shy but social all at the same time and loves to be where others are. He is a rule follower (usually) and loves to talk about animals, Disney, letters, activities and holidays. He is an absolute joy. He is happiness and positivity. Happy Birthday, dude! I love you to infinity and beyond!
If you remember, a few weeks ago I posted about H’s last speech screening – and I didn’t feel the greatest about it. I was frustrated with how it went and just felt uptight afterwards. He didn’t finish his initial screening because he 100% lost interest so we had to schedule part two of his screening. A couple weeks ago we had that screening and I am beyond excited to tell you it was completely different in the very best way.
Things went awesome. He had a different tester who he clicked with really fast and she understood him better and was just really good at getting him to speak and crack out of his shell a little after than normal. We were also in a different, less distracting room which I feel like helped a ton. He was able to finish all his testing.
I was very careful to make sure I went into this second part of testing with absolutely no expectations or ideas of how the testing would go. He still acted his age, but he was much more attentive and showed off a little more than last time. I was overjoyed.
Once the testing was completed, we were sent out to wait for a little while in a fun play room. Then I was called back for a very brief meeting while H got to stay in and play. In this meeting I was informed that H is very intelligent and bright and tests above average on everything, except speech – particularly articulation. It was a relief to hear, even though deep down I think I knew speech/articulation was the only real issue we were dealing with.
So now Wild Man and I are deciding which form of Speech Therapy we’d like him to go on to after he turns three. We have a couple different choices that we need to pick between. I’m excited to see what H can do in this new program. I’m excited that round two of testing went so much better. I’m proud of my little guy and these incredible strides he’s making!